
There is one encounter which I never really paid much mind to during my campaigns, since it’s tucked away underground and not a necessary area to visit in order to complete the main quest. I recently decided to take a proper look around and discovered something which I’m sure many players will have never heard of before, and I can’t believe I didn’t piece this together sooner. The backstory behind this seemingly insignificant Act One boss reminded me just how dark BG3 can get.
What Is The True Identity Of The Phase Spider Matriarch?
The Giant Arachnid Was Once An Elven Woman

If you jump down the well in the Blighted Village or find your way through the blacksmith’s workshop, you’ll find a small cave system with similar features to the Underdark called the “Whispering Depths.” You can actually access the Underdark from this area by jumping down the large pit with Feather Fall active, which is what most people will remember the area for. It’s also the home of a formidable miniboss called the Phase Spider Matriarch.
Characters with the Sage background can earn an inspiration point if they read all four of Eliette’s journals. Although the order you read the Journals in does not matter, the chronological order of the notes seems to be the Bloody Journal, the
Tattered Journal, the Ritual Diagram, the
Burnt Journal, then finally the
Web-Covered Journal.
How Did Eliette Dedicate Herself To Lolth In Baldur’s Gate 3?
Eliette’s Transformation Was An Act Of Crazed Devotion To The Spider Queen






Eliette was a fanatic follower of Lolth, but interestingly, did not originate from the Underdark, being a high-elf. She spent most of her life on the surface, and regretted every moment of it, feeling uncomfortable in her lifestyle alongside her elven name and appearance. She was eventually captured by a group of drow, and even they were disturbed by her undying loyalty to the goddess. The journal which seems have been written after her capture describes Lolth sending Eliette various “gifts,” in her typical macabre fashion.
This power was not enough for Eliette, and she desired to feel even closer to Lolth. Players can find a ritual diagram alongside the journals which depict a spider and an elf, which many players, like these on Reddit, seem to interpret as the birth of a drider, like Kar’niss in Act Two. However, it’s unlikely that a follower of Lolth would actively want to become a drider, given how they’re generally seen as abominations in Lolth’s eyes – she often turns people into driders as punishment. You even get some dialogue options to berate Kar’niss if you’re playing a Lolthsworn drow when meeting him.
“In Her form I find ecstasy. The spell is not enough.” – Eliette, Burnt Journal
This makes the boss fight even more disturbing, as you also have to fight off the Matriarch’s children. She may still be conscious in her new arachnid body, but there’s unfortunately no way to talk to or help Eliette. The Phase Spider Matriarch is one of the most fascinating, and possibly even tragic, creatures in Baldur’s Gate 3.