Winona Ryder was bullied even during Beetlejuice days—her revenge? A jaw-dropping one-liner years later that proves she’s always been the main character
Winona Ryder, Hollywood rebel, Golden Globe winner, and all-around ‘90s legend, was once bullied. Wild, right? Yep, THE Winona Ryder, goth queen of the big screen, wasn’t just battling sandworms on set—she was dealing with real-life bullies back in junior high.
Recently, the now 46-year-old opened up about her brutal school days, sharing how relentless bullying scarred her—and how she ultimately got her own comeback story. Spoiler alert: it’s got that sweet revenge arc we love in every great flick.
After taking a long breather from the spotlight, Ryder made a killer return as Joyce Byers in Stranger Things—aka the ride-or-die mom who’d tear down the Upside Down just to find her kid. Her character’s gritty determination? Yeah, that wasn’t just acting. Winona’s been living that “never back down” energy all her life.
Revenge is best served with espresso
Winona Ryder in Stranger Things| Credits: Netflix
Before she was Hollywood royalty, Winona Ryder was just a misfit kid with a boyish haircut, rocking thrifted menswear, and taking hits—literally. According to People, the Stranger Things star opened up about the brutal bullying she endured back in junior high, and honestly, it sounds like something straight out of a dark high school drama.
In Winona Ryder: The Biography by Nigel Goodall, she recounts showing up to Kenilworth Junior High in Petaluma, California, wearing an old Salvation Army boys’ suit. On just day three of seventh grade, things went south fast. She walked into the bathroom and was met with homophobic slurs—and then, out of nowhere, someone slammed her head into a locker. She hit the floor. They started kicking her. She ended up needing stitches.
But here’s the real plot twist: instead of punishing the attackers, the school expelled her. The future Golden Globe winner was kicked out while the bullies walked free. Total injustice. Fast forward a few years, and queue that classic revenge scene: Winona walks into a coffee shop. One of her old tormentors recognizes her, walks up to her, and asks for her autograph. Winona doesn’t miss a beat.
Do you remember me? Seventh grade? You beat up that kid? That was me. Go f— yourself.
Honestly? That’s cinema. Real-life revenge served hotter than any espresso.
When fame didn’t save the day
Michael Keaton and Winona Ryder in Beetlejuice (1988)
You’d think starring in Beetlejuice would make you untouchable in high school, right? Not for Winona Ryder. Even after becoming a breakout star in Tim Burton’s cult classic, the bullying didn’t stop—it actually got worse. Ryder recalled,
I remember thinking it was gonna, like, change my status. And it made it worse. They were like, ‘You’re a witch! You’re a freak!’ It amplified it. I was like, ‘But I’m in a movie!’
Total teen movie irony. You land a major role, and instead of rolling out the red carpet, your classmates roll out the hate. But Winona? She stayed unbothered and undefeated, graduating from Petaluma High with a 4.0 GPA. Book smart, screen legend, and high-key unstoppable.
Credits: Winona Ryder in Beetlejuice / Warner Bros. Pictures
This wasn’t the first time she opened up about being bullied either. Back in 2013, she shared that her short haircut—channeling Bugsy Malone vibes—made her a target. But little did those haters know, she wasn’t just ahead of her time… she was setting the trend decades early. Call it a full-circle moment. From teen misfit to cult movie royalty to Netflix powerhouse—Winona’s comeback is the kind of third-act twist we live for.
The bullies? Background extras. Winona? Always the main character.